10 Years Ago I Almost Died From A Cold Approach
I want to tell you a story about my first ever cold approach.
Let's paint the picture.
It was around 10 years ago, a beautiful sunny day in South Africa, and young Gabriel knew that this day would be the most important day of his life.
I was going to do my first ever cold approach.
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I went to a shopping center, it was jam-packed!
And then it all happened.
I started to feel these strong overwhelming emotions.
Fear and anxiety literally crippled me.
And this was while I was sitting comfortably in my car in the parking lot !
I couldn't believe that I was going to speak to a girl that I had never met before.
"Could I actually do this?"
I could not get myself out of the car. I was paralyzed with fear.
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I knew I had to motivate myself.
"Come on Gabriel! you can do this. This is your day. I know you can do it."
After 30 minutes of pumping myself up, I manage to get myself walking inside the center.
I was terrified. I felt like I needed to run back to my car, but I didn't let the fear beat me.
I remember seeing this super old woman reading a book by herself in an empty restaurant.
This was it.
This was going to be my first ever cold approach.
I start walking towards her and absolutely started to FREAK OUT!
I run back to my wing/coach at the time and literally I had my first ever panic attack of my life!
I just couldn't do it. I was terrified and frozen.
At that moment I thought I was about to DIE!
I had thoughts like:
“Maybe this journey is not for me. Im too much of a loser. Women hate me”
Then I literally spent around 2 hours thinking about what to say to this sweet looking granny and I came up with a brilliant opener.
“What book are you reading?”
Brilliant right;)
Now I had the opener and I was ready!
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Second attempt.
I start walking towards this old sweet granny who had no idea I was having an anxiety attack.
I got to her table and I literally froze, I couldn't remember my brilliant opener!
Then I blurt out “I Like Your Book!” and I run away.
When I say I ran away, I literally sprinted away out of fear!
But at the same time I felt the adrenaline pumping, I was happier then I had ever been!
I did it.
My first ever cold approach was done.
This surgeons, was the beginning of my journey.
From then on, I committed my life to this skill set.
Around 6 months ago I was back in South Africa, I went shopping at that exact same center, I didn't realize it but it was my first time back in 10 years.
I walked past that exact restaurant. And Instantly I had flashbacks.
I can remember it like it was yesterday.
I spent a moment staring at the table where it all happened and thinking about how crazy and amazing the last 10 years have been.
From being terrified to speak to an old woman to transforming my dating life and having the skill set to consistently date and sleep with the women of my dreams.
This journey has transformed my life and it can do the same for you, only if you commit.
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